"There’s so much more to life than finding someone who will want you, or being sad over someone who doesn’t. There’s a lot of wonderful time to be spent discovering yourself without hoping someone will fall in love with you along the way, and it doesn’t need to be painful or empty. You need to fill yourself up with love. Not anyone else. Become a whole being on your own. Go on adventures, fall asleep in the woods with friends, wander around the city at night, sit in a coffee shop on your own, write on bathroom stalls, leave notes in library books, dress up for yourself, give to others, smile a lot. Do all things with love, but don’t romanticize life like you can’t survive without it. Live for yourself and be happy on your own. It isn’t any less beautiful, I promise."
I’ve been on a date a week for the past three weeks (thank you dating sites, why did I ever doubt you) and the only thing I’ve learned so far is that I’m interesting for about half a date and I will 100% never hear from the person again afterwards (especially if there’s no inclination that I’ll sleep with them there and then, thank you gay community for that one)
I’m going to the V&A and the Natural History Museum tomorrow because I can literally walk there from my flat in about half and hour and I can’t believe it’s taken me six months of being in London to do that
I have this week off of work and I need to fill about 90% of my spare time but right now I’m going to stay in bed and watch Greys Anatomy and maybe go to Soho later for lunch who knows
People fall in love every time they feel unloved.
I fully intend to leave my bed/put on clothes today but at the same time I’m 98% sure that will not happen.